Who Are You Becoming: Exploring How Words Shape Your Life and Craft Your Future shares key insights from Bonita's personal journey of discovery, transformation and her long search for the truth she believes truly sets her free. She takes the reader along her path of awakening as a young adult, dealing with her alternative sexuality within a very traditional religious family and an extremely conventional social environment. The essence of the book is the sharing of her realisation that we all live in the stories we tell and repeat, and that the words we use to tell these stories matter far more than most realise. Together with the reader, she explores just how our stories craft either the prisons within which we are trapped or shape palaces of possibilities. She asks the reader to take a real look, possibly for the very first time, at whether their daily, repeated words are crafting prisons or palaces, limiting possibilities or opening up possibilities.
